This brings me to an important point – Asian (including Indian) men generally have a harder time dating (especially interracially) than any other ethnic group. I’m very proud of my ethnic and cultural background.That’s why the ‘blasian’ relationship from the show was such a big deal. Come to think of it, if I really wanted to feel sorry for myself, it’d certainly be understandable… But I also don’t bury my head in the sand and delude myself when there are dozens of studies done that show that in the western dating scene (and much of the non-asian world in general), being Asian is not an advantage.You don’t see his quirks as anything bad that need to be explained.You feel an undeniable charm about him that you assume your friends will feel too.Kudos to ABC for having the balls to break stereotypes like that.More specifically, Korean-American actor John Cho (of Harold and Kumar fame) plays an FBI agent who is engaged to hottie Gabrielle Union (Bad Boys II).If you consider texts from a guy a nuisance, if you look at them and think, “I’ll answer that later” without so much as even reading it, and then you forget completely to respond…you’ll probably never be that into him.You don’t just forget to text back a guy you’re actually into. com You’re still considering other guys Maybe after just one date or two you could be open to flipping the switch, tossing the guy and accepting a new one.
So I’m addicted to the new TV show Flash Forward, about something that causes the entire world to black out for 2 minutes while seeing a vision of their lives 6 months in the future.Even the greatest date isn’t great If there are no sparks after a gourmet meal cooked by a personal chef on a yacht under the stars, there never will be.If he goes all out and at the end of the day you’re thinking about someone else or would rather be anywhere else than with him, that’s not a good sign. You make excuses for him If before bringing a guy around friends, you try to “explain” his choice of work, his style, his sense of humor, his looks and everything else about him, you’re probably still trying to sell him to yourself.If you’re into a guy, you see everything about him as great and you have no doubt that others will see it that way.